Often in daily life such a phenomenon: when you ask for help, If you start to make higher demands, it is easy being rejected; and if you make smaller first request, the requirements of other people agree and then increase the weight, easier to achieve the target, a phenomenon psychologists call "landing threshold effect."
Education in the family, we can also use "landing threshold effect." For example, first proposed by the lower requirements for children until they are done as required, be sure to recognize and even reward, then gradually increase demand so that children actively make progress endlessly happy. |